Some families like to take the seminars together and they find it brings them closer and enhances the relationship.  Others want to take the seminars separately - and that works fine too.  Some people feel they can get more out of the seminars and participate more fully if their significant other is not present.  We suggest you discuss it with one another and decide what you think will work best for you.  There have been times where three generations were present in the same seminar and it was an incredible experience for their family and all involved.  So it's an individual decision.